The addiction to playing their game might be stronger in hockey than in any team sport. There is evidence of this in the NHL, where players enthusiastically participated in an international event for 10 days that halted the 82-game season in 2024-25.
It was remarkable to see players out there brutalizing one another in the make-believe “Four Nations Cup,” knowing they immediately would be back in the grind of a crowded regular season, and followed by perhaps as long as two months in the Stanley Cup playoffs.
This season there will be dozens of star NHLers off to the Olympics during another February break, then hustling back for the playoff push and, likely, the playoffs themselves.
These hockey players — there’s something in the brain that causes them to get hammered into the boards and say, “Thank you, coach, may I have another.”
For sure, the hockey families here in Minnesota can’t stay away from it — and the Pitlicks are one of those, with some guidance is required as to the family tree.
Lance Pitlick came out of Cooper, played a full four seasons with the Gophers, played most of 5½ seasons in the minors and then had seven seasons as a defenseman in the NHL. His sons are Rem and Rhett, with Rem having a grand moment with the Wild when he scored a pure hat trick early in the 2021-22 season at Seattle.
Rem’s time with the Wild didn’t last, and the brothers are now signed to start this season with the Bakersfield (Calif.) Condors in the AHL.
John Pitlick is Lance’s brother, and his hockey players have been daughter Alli, a four-year standout for the University of St. Thomas now in the business world, and son Tyler, now in training camp with the Wild.
You know that part about “may I have another” — if and when he appears in the regular season for the Wild, they will be Tyler’s ninth NHL team, starting with Edmonton for 10 games in the 2013-14 season.
Rem played 20 games for the Wild in 2021-22 at age 24. That was a thrill for grandmother Punky Setten. And now with a chance to have Tyler, another grandson about to turn 34, skating for the home team on St. Paul ice … Punky would be over the moon.
Which is the way she lives life, according to friends and relatives who have watched Punky (nobody calls her Armella, the given name) was in action watching sons and grandkids at the rink.
I called a nephew, Joe McElroy, a former Armstrong hockey player, to get a tutorial on the Pitlick-Setten family tree. He gave a synopsis and then said: “Try calling Tyler’s grandmother, Punky. She’s the greatest. She’s hilarious.”
Punky had two sons, Lance and John, with her first marriage, and son Adam and daughter Nicole with husband Larry, renown as one of the finest skate sharpeners to be found in the west suburbs.
“I have been going to hockey rinks for 53 years, since Lance started skating, and that’s not going to end anytime soon,” Punky said Friday. ”We have a little grandson and granddaughter just starting mites, and another who will be out there in a year.


